Forgiveness - a must for every person
By Moabi Pitsi
God is the Lord of forgiveness
MATTHEW 18:35 NKJ 35 "So My
heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not
forgive his brother his trespasses." God is the Lord of forgiveness. He is
the beginning and the end of forgiveness. Throughout His life, Jesus Christ demonstrated
the power of forgiveness. He made several decisions about many people - even
His disciples. He proved many times that forgiveness is a decision we need to
make about any negative feeling we might have about anyone.
Unforgiveness is a disease
Like a pile of unhealthy substances
in your body, unforgiveness has got a great ability to kill us. Many of today's
diseases are also caused by unforgiveness. Today, an increasing number of
people are under stress, have committed suicide or even killed others - just
because human nature is unforgiving. But God-nature is filled with forgiveness.
When you choose God, you also choose to forgive.
You pick it up in life
Many of us work the journey of life
with a trailer of unforgiveness. Many of us walk with it wherever we go,
knowing that everyday, the trailer is picking up lots and lots of burden.
Burdens we will never use, for we don't even need in our lives. Every move we
make, every step we make - we pick up the burden of unforgiveness - when we
don't forgive.
Forgiving gives the forgiver
freedom to experience God working in their lives
Everyday, our world is defined by
persons and behaviours the truly shows that the Lord's Prayer "forgive us
our trespases, as we forgive those who trespass against us" is yet to be
lived. Unforgiveness is the most difficult thing we will ever do to ourselves.
Actually, I am often amazed at how we normally think that forgiving someone is
like making them a favour. The truth is, forgiving gives the forgiver freedom
to experience God working in their lives.
Forgive, no matter what
We must forgive people, regardless
of what they have done. When you forgive your neighbour, when you forgive your
wife/husband, when you forgive your children, this will greatly lift the heavy
yoke on your should. You will feel like the feather weight champion - so light.
When you choose to forgive to free yourself - and others - from the very burden
of destructive tendencies. When you forgive to choose God over the Devil. When
you forgive you choose to live than to death many times before your natural
death. When you forgive you show the power of God and the Power of His love, so
whatever happens, decide to forgive.
Decide to forgive today
Like said before, forgiveness is a
decision. Everyday, we are confronted by many things we must decide to forgive
others on. Unforgiveness sentences our heart to a bottomless pit filled with
pity and anger. Anger drives us to do things that are not godly. When we decide
to forgive, we also decide to hear from God. There is no need for us to hold on
to the feeling of unforgiveness. Unforgiveness is like an acid that slowly eats
away the container it has been poured it. When we don't forgive, unforgiveness
will eat us alive. Ultimately, we will be left with nothing belong to God, to
praise God, to pray to God, to fast in the name of God and to give to God.
Forgiveness is a good fight
COLOSSIANS 3:12-13 NKJ 12
"Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies,
kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; 13 bearing with one
another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another;
even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do". The good fight of
forgiveness give us energy to make progress in our lives and the lives of
others. It is the fight every person must win. It is a fight of faith.Every
person is worth forgiving.
The life we live today makes
unforgiveness look good. It makes it good not to give way when someone
frantically wants to pass you while driving. It makes it good to want to have a
child and not be with their father. It makes it good to fire people never
caring about the impact of this on their families and community. It makes it
normal to spread sickening rumours just because someone is HIV+. Whatever the
type of burden of unforgiveness persisting currently in your life - you must
let it go. Do not carry this with you. Decide to forgive today. There is power
in forgiving today. Forgive before it eats you alive. Praise God for
forgiveness. Give to God for forgiveness. Pray to God for forgiveness.
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